CHILD'S CRY comment
Men are neccessary. They are what God started with. There has to be a starting place. Try to start counting from a number other than 1 or a different number everytime and you will see how important it is to have an agreed upon starting point. Try letting every person in a race pick their own starting place; talk about chaos. Recordkeeping would be a nightmare.
Being male means being marked for recognition by the Recordkeeper. It means being a starting place...where order begins and chaos ends. Being male means when you marry you are the head-the part that's most readily grabbed ahold of. You are the main point of focus in a struggle or in a time of accounting. You are also the most humble in your family. Scripture gives Yeshua as your husbandly example. Want more authority? Give your life.
If there's a child, then a husband/father is neccessary. A child who has never known a father is lacking necessary order and protection. Fatherless children have problems children with both parents in the home, don't. There is a huge shortage in the labor pool supplying the American family. The husband/father position is standing open(we're trying to count without the number 1) or the position is being filled by mothers(another number is doing double-duty). Sounds like chaos. Females can't be males anymore than males can be females, despite what the medical field and Godless politicians say. If the husband/father leaves the family, the wife and children take his irresponsibility on themselves as guilt and/or anger. His abandonment sabatoges his children's marriages. Why is this important? No marriage, no Body of Messiah. A child who has never known a father is less likely to see that one is neccessary or to give marriage priority. A child who's father divorces is less likely to believe marriage works. And the cycle continues. No marriage, no Body of Messiah.